If he leans in to hug you, just lean in but don't hug him back. Do you have pictures of the two of you around the house? You may want to take a few of those down if he's going to be around the house for awhile.
You are now a smart and strong independent woman.
Think of this example. You're Sandy at the end of "Grease". Remember how she changed into a badass and ignored the other men? It made them want her more.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.