My STBX says that he wants to remain friends. Perhaps keeping that door open even after D could lead to a reconnection. I believe you have to haev that before you can have a reconcilation.

Perhaps I'm fooling myslef too. I want what some of you want and that's to have my married life back. I know it will be better this time around.

BITS

M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11