I know this is a painful time. I am in the same boat as you in the sense that your sitch and mine seem to have alot of commonalities.
I try and get on the boards as much as I can. So, I reach out to you in friendship and hope that maybe we can help each other. I certainly welcome all the board vets advice as well.
Peace to you....ZG
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11