""It's really my problem that I have to work though and that's why I'm upset. " I'm not saying your feelings are wrong and I respect them. He wanted to be able to bring up issues without provoking her. Which makes sense."
This is a perfect example of validating your spouse.
It's the anxiety of having the bomb dropped on you that makes you hesitate. Happens to many in piecing. You're also just being cautious because you don't want the bomb to be dropped again.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.