Wow Hope - I have gotten caught up the best I can. That has been some rollercoaster ride.
You and your H seem to be moving a more positive direction; baby steps. Don't beat yourself up when you backslide a bit. We are all works in progress - never forget that. I think you are doing great and I congratulate you on your progress thus far. I wish I shared your luck.
I will post a new thread with some updates on my sitch do I don't hijack your thread. My only request is that you be on the lookout for it. I can really use some advice.
You are in my thoughts and prayers daily.
Peace - ZG
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11