Also, what I don't get is H was jealous when we were together on Dec. 15th. He made a comment about a person he use to work with and asked if I had heard from him and I said no, not in a long time. I also told H I don't even know what he looks like. I never met him and have NO clue how he got my cell.
Well, H said you won't have to worry about him coming near you or calling you again.
Then kind of personal lol but he made a remark about what I was wearing when we made love......I think a little jealous then too.
Then when we went out on the 18th of December, he kept looking at my ring finger and I always wear my engagement ring, since the S our D14 was playing with my wedding band and dropped it down the sink. Well, I made sure I had the engagement ring off on the 15th and 18th. Then he tries to make me jealous (even asked if I was), by telling me how he stops at this pizza place after work every day for a few beers and knows all the girls. I didn't say anything at all when he asked and he felt it necessary to tell me that they were either married, too young, or engaged. WTH??? He is driving me crazy. I do know though if his family wasn't involved (which is his fault), I honestly don't think this S would have gone on this long or would he have filed for a D. I don't have OW to worry about, it's his family.
If he claims to be a family man like he did to me. HELLO! You have your own family you made with me and the kids.
Do I contact his family? Does anyone think it would help? I feel he made this mess and he needs to clean it up. I've worked very hard being nice and biting my tongue. I don't know if he wants me to explain to them that he suffers from depression or what the heck. Then like I said above 7 minutes later he is saying never mind and that he thinks it for the best if we move on.