Like I said Riley, I don't feel very comfortable advising you on boundaries. It is not something that I have used in my situation just bc of the circumstances. So I"M going to have to let others advise you here.

I did come across a thread in MLC forum that was talking about it just a bit ago. It is Angel's thread over there. Good example of why you have to be willing to back any boundary that you set with ACTION and/or CONSEQUENCES. Don't set them if you aren't willing to live with what action and consequences you give to S.

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce