I failled horribly...

[dixiegal]

So, I saw this thread..It struck me because, male or female WE are on the crap end of it! We love our spouses and are learning all these lessons about ourselves.

My H and I have been seperated for a long time. But, we saw and spoke to each other all the time. Till I blew it and said to him "Why don't you Man up and make a decision already come home or let me go!" I can't forgive myself for saying such a thing. I was just in bed sick and was so frustrated. He ended it for good a few days before Christmas.

I have been a wreck, it's harder for us girls to control our emotions I guess. H has sent via FB msg that he misses me or I miss you more every day what am I doing?

Our 17 yr wedding ann. was Jan 8th. He sent a msg that he was thinking of me. I didnt respond. Not because, I'm so strong or anything. But, because I was a total train wreck!!! I spent the day with his Grandma. Had to keep going in the bathroom to keep my tears private!

So, maybe yall could give me insight from a male perspective? I from a female??

Like yall I'm doing the whole LRT. But, I missed our Dog. So, I emailed him if I could have the Dog for a few days. He called and said yes. Brought the Dog over.

So, now the he is coming tomorrow to pick up the dog. I don't know what to do???? The counselor says to ask him if he would be willing to come see them or attend the retreat for marraiges in crisis next month? But, isnt that a no-no while LRT?

Denver 2010, I think she may be testing the waters to see if your open at all though too. Don't let your anger get the best of you. Like I did...resentment can cause even more damage! Your doing great though!