Have you asked him to go to MC in the past? If he has said no, then don't bring it up.

If you really want to try something different, you could do this (but take note, you're going to have to be ready to fully go into it). When he picks up the dog, keep it short as if you had someplace to go. Tell him, thanks for taking the dog and that you've got to go to meet a friend for lunch or whatever. If he asks who the friend is, then just say a friend. Say goodbye with no hug or kiss and then run back into the house.

Be sure you look great and smell nice. If he calls later, don't answer the phone immediately. Just let stay coy. You have to get him to start wanting you again and not just temporarily. He has to see that he's going to lose you. See how that works.

Have the two of you been intimate while separated? I mean, you mention how you go on vacation together which is odd.

But that's just my .02.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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