Proud of your progress man. It is okay that you are emotional, just keep it private as you have been doing. Hopefully over time as you adjust to the situation, the highs and lows wont be so dramatic and you will be more emotionally consistent.
Keep it going. Most important point: you are learning how to be a better man, these changes are not a temporary fix. Sometimes it takes a crisis such as this to teach us how to maintain a healthy R.
She is confused. That is actually a good thing in this case I believe. Better confused than resolute.
Keep up the GAL, and yes STOP trying to analyze her (you were correct I would have told you that lol). Monitoring is okay, but look at her behavior, dont try to figure out her throughts and feelings. Its counter-productive.
Regards, SF
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Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
