We had the realtor come to look at the house last night. It was a very rude awakening for H as suspected, but I'm glad he now realizes the amount of work we have to do and the loss we'll take if we sell as is.
He has decided to move back home the end of the month ONLY for financial reasons and has agreed to pay half of everything again while we fix up the house in order to sell.
I know i have to detach but I struggle with not asking him about the affair.. I was very calm and rational and didn't yell. We talked about how sad this situation all is and I even sensed remorse on a few topics although he would never admit it to me I could read it in him.
I have 2 weeks before he moves back home.. I need to prepare, i'm scared I'm going to do something wrong while he's at the house. GAL & 180 are working as he's made reference to a few things but i'm worried about relapsing and getting emotional around him or pestering him about R.
Ugh.
Me-41 H-34 T-9 M-8 10/21/10-BOMB 11/01/10-H moves out 01/27/12-H files
"Good memories tell you that your past was worth it, bad ones tell you that you were strong enough to go on"
