Girls, it's the same with me. H shows up with no warning, a 10 foot trailer, and only takes what would have fit in the back of his truck in the first place. Still have stuff of his.
MY friends say it's just his way of keeping one foot in the door at all times. So he can 'drop in' and see if there are signs of another man, etc. Then he has legal papers drawn up, asking for stuff he already has, and for stuff I've been trying to get him to take for months!
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011