Originally Posted By: wanda15
WOW. That was great. It seems like a whole that to do. I read this and think there is no way my H could do all that. It is everything he needs to do but I really don't think he wants to.

Thanks for the guideline though. Something to keep reading and remind myself of everyday!


Well I never realized it was actually this easy. I mean I was never in tune with what my wife wanted until now. Unfortunately now is too late.

But that does nto mean these changes should go without being accomplished. I will do these for myself, my children and for my wife.

Also this is helping me at work and with friends as well.


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out