Sandi, WOW..
Daily assingments is the perfect words to get through to me. Thank you.

My immeidate daily assignments/gola is to allow her the freedoms she thinks I have taken from her. Those are reading on her laptop, sitting in quiet and enjoying the fact that the house is mellow quiet and the kids are resting. I too want these things.
So, my goal for today is to go home, relax with kids, play some video games or card games with the kids. Then enjoy a nice family dinner and then relax doing what ever I want for the evening. Be that sitting on the coach with the wife doing her thing.

Last night was actually amazing. I could sense wife was a bit tense but I did not force any conversation or issues. I just let her do what she wanted and I did the same.

So me saying it was a wash was a poor choice of words at that time.

Sandi, I will achieve my goal today and that will be another baby step.

Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out