Hmmmm. Reading your sitch. AND in light of what I have learned over the past 2 yrs, just reading it happening to someone else makes me want to scream WAKE UP! I am sorry but it seems as if he is playing you and the other woman. Have you thought maybe the other woman is pushing for a divorce from you and he isnt ready for that SO maybe he wants a backup plan. Listen if a guy wants to be with a woman he WILL. If he wants to be with his family he WILL. There is NOT anything stoppin him. SHE, whoever she is, interrupted YOUR life. Please stop doing this to yourself, DO NOT tell him you WILL wait, he is checking to make sure you WILL do just that. He is playing right now and he isnt done, OR he would be FULLY committed to coming home. He is GOOD at what he is doing. I am not saying he doesnt love you or want his family to work someday. THINK.....if you want something dont you go after it full force? This is his family for crying out loud, You dont have to answer ANY of his questions unless its about your children. He knows you are hanging on, he knows you love him and want your family to work, and he knows just how much line to throw you. Until he REALLY wants to committ to his marriage again, please do yourself a favor and pretend like he is GONE! I dont mean to sound mean but dont let him drag you along any longer. Sounds like that man is still very much confused, or being given some ultimatums and he doesnt know which way to turn. UNTIL he figures it out, and is SUPER honeset and ready......MOVE ON like there is NO TOMORROW! While doing ALL this please TRUST IN THE LORD, turn to him for peace and guidance.
