Ok my phone couch actually thinks its a good idea that I leave and have him take care of the son for a period of time so he can have a reason to move back into the house. he's currently staying in a hotel.
She told me to do these things:
1. stop saying i love you 2. stop touching him 3. act happy and go out 4. let him feel like I don't need him to have a life. I have a life.
for this period of time.
but of course, still be friendly and warm when he talks to me.