Having a really hard time...

[Denver_2010]

Next - I think what everyone is trying to figure out with you is whether or not you have any passion about your situation. I'm really not trying to beat you up here, but the tone of all of your posts is just negative and passionless. Even in your answer about how you would feel if you found out that there were OM, you didn't show much passion.

Just my two cents, but maybe this is the ingredient that you are missing here. Bond has advised you multiple times to be strong, confident and show W that you are willing to STAND for what's important. Specifically, not being so nonchalant about the D legal process. I think that the point he making, and please correct me Bond if I am incorrect, is that women want to see strong, confident men who are willing to fight for what is important to them. I don't know that you can do that without pulling yourself up from this the hell of your situation and becoming passionate about what YOU want.

If you start showing a little passion about what is going on with D process and everything else, even little things, maybe especially little things, your W will start to take notice. That is how you are going to start to turn this thing around Next.

Again, not trying to beat you up. Really. I don't think that anyone would be spending there time posting on your thread if they didn't care. Me included.

Denver