Auto club membership is due next month. Do I take H off it as an associate member? He is no longer living in our "household". Do I tell him I'm removing him? Do I leave it alone and pay the extra fee?
Not familiar with your sitch. What is your goal with H right now? Still trying to save M? What is H's attitude?
I ask these questions bc my DB coach gave me good advice that is suppose to apply to everything that I say or do concerning my W right now. That advice is to ask myself "will this action or statement 1) draw my W closer to me; 2) push her away; or 3) be neutral". Of course we don't want to do things that push our S's away if our goal is to draw them closer. I'd say apply this to your decision re the auto club.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
