Agreed FOBD. I'm looking at any contact as good contact as well right now. I also think that my DBing has taken the hate fuel from my W. One of the first things that I read on a thread from this site was this:

"For now, your role in her fantasy play is that of evil villan. She needs that to justify her behavior. Try your best to stay off the stage."

That bit of advice helped me tremendously.

I like the idea of posting something on my mirror to DB each day regardless of what W does.

Thanks FOBD

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce