Bolt, Keep me posted on this texting thing with your W. As you know, you and I are in the same boat. I've got some douche bag in Canada (over 1200 miles away from where we live) sending my W numerous texts. I found out who he is and found his FaceBook page. According to his page, he too is in a "serious relationship" and he has pictures of a baby on his page. I wonder if his "serious relationship" knows about his EA with my freakin' W???? The part that gives me hope is that he seems to be the one chasing. I got a detailed copy of the phone bill and looked at the charges. Every morning, he is the one to initiate first contact. The first exchange each day between then always starts with one from him to her. I also noticed that on my birthday, he texted her early in the morning, she only replied once and that was it for the whole day. I think she realized she could not carry this EA on while it was birthday even though we were S'ed then and hadn't seen each other for weeks. That give me hope. She still knows right from wrong right now...
It still doesn't change the fact that she changed the cellular bill to electronic billing and then locked me out of the account. The other night when she came over, she already had paperwork to separate our cell phone accounts. And when I brought him up, I got the "friends" B/S again. As a good DB'er, I am not going to bring it up again. But I am very interested in what happens in your sitch. Please keep me posted and hang in there!! You have some good friends here. Stay in touch!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
