Also, FellOnBlackDays, MJ, myself and a few others have started an open club that I'd encourage you to join. It is BITS (Brothers In The Sh*t)... FOBD's idea, and a great one at that. All of us have very similar situations. We have all been following each other's threads and giving each other support.

BITS!
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce