On Figurative Ledge - Talk Me Down?

[FellOnBlackDays]

Denver,

Remember any communication is good communication. That is the way I look at it right now. Look at the double-edged sword that I am facing right now. Yes, my wife is now talking to me on a daily basis, but it is to talk about organizing her move. But, it is communication. After going two months without speaking a word to each other, anything is better than nothing. It is adding "normalcy" to the R. Sure, you and I are scared that they could be setting us up for the D or worse. But, we have to take pleasure in the small victories.

I had an awful day today. But, I saved it by going to the gym and having a nice dinner while laughing at some TV. I then came here to check up on my BITS. No matter what she does, she can't take that away from me. I saved my day regardless of what she wants.

Look, do what I did. Put a sign on your mirror where you get ready for work each morning. Write on that sign, "I am going to DB today NO MATTER WHAT SHE DOES." I stand there each morning and read this aloud to myself. It is the one thing that keeps me going.

Keep me posted, buddy. Remember, each time they talk to you and you are cool, they can't go to bed "villianizing" you as they have for the past weeks and months. Don't fuel their anger or imagination. I honestly think this is why my wife is more friendly. She has NO fuel for her "hate fire" because the H she once wanted to punish has disappeared...

FOBD