Thanks for the perspective PEI. I guess it's easy to get caught up in the damage our spouses are doing to our kids - not realizing that we can actually do harm ourselves.

Had a "woe is me moment". Better now. I'm just trying to formulate new boundaries during this iteration of DBing, since the others have left me in a similar spot to the one I started in.

There's also part of me dreading the other shoe dropping... She's warming the kids up for her move in with OM.


M / W: 43
D8
S6
M 10 years / T 13 years
W admitted EA/PA: 10.6.09
Separated in same house 10.6.09
W moved out 2.27.10