Denver,
I am glad you can sympathize. You just can't turn it off. They might be able to block it with anger or rage or disappointment, but you just can't turn off love that went on for 15 years. The other night (why I did this, I don't know. I guess I like torture.), I pulled out a box in which I keep all the cards and love letters that she has given me over the past 15 years. As short as one year ago, she was still madly in love with me. She said so in the damned card. Now, I am supposed to believe she just turned it off in a couple of months??? It just doesn't work that way. That is why I am willing to wait for her. If I can't turn it off, I refuse to believe she can so easily.

B.I.T.S.!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...