You've opened quite a bit, and I commend you for it. It's certainly not an easy thing to do to discuss your hand in the matter. At the risk of placing you in any further discomfort, you told your W 4 years a go that you didn't want to be married anymore. Will you elaborate on why you thought that? Was it just the "rush" of the OW? Did you have serious issues with your W then that you felt you couldn't address with her first? I think its important to study that time a little bit closer, because it seems as if that has shaped both of your thoughts about things ever since.
M-34 XW-32 D-7 Found OM's presence 4/09 Separated 12/09 Divorced 8/10 GREAT relationship as coparents since 8/10
