H's MLC - finding compassion and forgiveness

[Mila]

Since the meeting with H, where he stormed out, things are fairly cold between us...I guess I'm colder...just don't want to have anything to do with him or see him right now.

Yesterday he called me that he needs to pick-up something from the garage and also I had some papers that he wanted so I left them on the front porch...he confirmed that he is coming in 30 minutes, I needed to leave, but I waited around for him because he doesn't have the remote for the garage anymore...and then D tells me that he already came and picked up the papers from the porch....didn't come in to pick up the stuff he wanted from the garage...I waited for nothing.

Today he calls that he wants to pick-up the stuff from the garage again, asks if it's convenient...I was busy so I said that it's not right now, why doesn't he pick it up later when he drops off D (she is spending time with him in the evening) so he starts pushing his way that he wants to do it NOW, he needs it now...why call at all and ask if it's convenient?...I said whatever, come now then...but really he just has to have his way every single time...like a spoiled child.

H came, I opened the garage and went back to what I was doing, later he came in and said that he is done...fine I closed the garage glad that he is finally gone....15 min later he calls...and get this...he forgot what he came for in the garage....left without it...where is his brain????...had to laugh at that one....