Trusting, Sounds as if he is processing a lot now, as is mine. Sleeper might be next to get an apology.

I guess I would say that forgiveness is a term that's thrown around a lot but nobody talks about how to do it.

Do I forgive X? I guess I do. I feel that something happened to him. Maybe someday I will understand what that was.

I would add, though, that that doesn't mean I LIKE him any more.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D