Just give it a little more time Denver, and hopefully you won't have to wait for your posts to...post.
While I am sorry you are here, I am glad that you are, you're an assest and a good example, as are others S&H and Pickle just to name a few, but not just those guys or gals for that matter.
Your advice is reasoned and compassionate.
Others have you covered very well and you don't seem to need another supporter when for the most part all I am going to be saying is "good job Denver", but Good job Denver.
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