Having a really hard time...

[Denver_2010]

Unless you answer the questions above no one is going to be able to help you. So again...

How would you feel if there were another man?
What were the specific problems she had with you in terms of the M? She wanted you out of the house pretty quick, why is that?
How often does she call you? What do you two talk about? Why can't you call her also?

Bond is just trying to help Next. He's trying to get some more info on your situation and you keep dodging specific answers to his specific questions.

We know that you 'hope' that there isn't OM, but how would you FEEL if you found out that there was?

and the other q's...