Tank, I am so proud of you. I sincerely hope that you are proud of yourself!!!! I know this is hard for you and you are doing so great and your attitude is great.
I like to hear that she is squirming. If she felt trapped at home, I can't imagine how she feels with this OM who seems crazy controlling.
You are creating a great environment for the kids too.
Question - have you heard from the father of your older ones? How is that going?