I am making her aware that it is a part of my needs to repair this and my new boundaries
Just want say this about setting boundaries, don't put anything out there that you aren't prepared to back up with consequences. A lot has been said about boundaries in recent times, but they aren't worth a pinch of salt if there is no consequences. In fact, it's much better to not mention the word rather than be weak about holding the boundary. Just my 2 cents.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
