18 Years of Marriage - Leaving in June

[habitacker]

All advice I have ever gotten said to wait for her to come to you about R talk.

Of course my wife and I have not had a R talk in months. I have asked about this on this forum many times and have never been told to try and R talk with her.

They will do it when they are ready. If they are not ready, and you try to push it, you will probably make things worse.

I feel my W will never come to me about R talk. She hasn't even before the bomb. No communication is what got us here in the first place, but, I am going to keep going with DBing and the advice I get on this forum.