Not sure why you would think the evening is a wash? Seems like it was quiet but it was not bad. Sometimes quiet can be okay. There was no fighting or R talk. If you were to keep track of good and bad days I would put this in the good day pile.
IMHO Every good day is a blessing. Keep up the Dbing and you will make it. Be positive and don't take the tiny things for granted.
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007