Having a really hard time...

[what next?]

I am in contact with her... I just don't initiate it. I could worry about there being an on but what good would That do me? I'm confident that there isn't and have no way to know one way or the other. Just because she hasn't told me she misses me doesn't mean that she doesn't. I think her story is closer to a mlc than anything and when she was a teen her parents took car of everything and were super overprotective. It seems to me like that is where her mind is... maybe she is just gone and I should give up but I'm not ready to. So what can I do to be proactive at this point? The only thing I can see is to let her have what she wants (divorce) and then hope that she can see that it isn't what she wants. I believe that she isn't happy with herself and is very depressed. She is putting that all on me and thinking she will have a fantasy perfect life after this... I think she will wake up after the divorce and realize she is still as unhappy with herself as she was when I was there. Then she can see that I can be a benefit to her...