Thanks so much everyone!! I really needed to see these posts today. I have been crying my eyes out all day. After several weeks of progress and dbing by h stated sunday that he again thinks things would be better if we seperated. Come to find out he is emailing his female "friend" again after he agreed at Thanksgiving to stop all contact because I felt it was inappropriate to discuss our marriage with another women. He stated she is just someone he can talk to and acts like it is not big deal!!! WTF. He is drinking all the time now and on the computer non stop. When I straight out asked him what he wanted he stated he didn't know. The next day he was on a trip and kissed me on the cheek before he left. That night he acted like everything was fine. Had dinner with me and the kids and sat and watched tv next to me after they were in bed. I don't know what I am going to get from him one day to the next. What do I do at this point....keep on keeping on or are there other things I should be doing? Tori
