I could not have said it better. In fact you summarized what most of our X spouses are like.
Actually my X did have a couple of EAs just before she dropped the bomb. I remember confronting her and got the standard "we are just friends". More than likely there was an PA that I just did not know about.
Ya, you never know what will happen. For us, my X and I are travelling in opposite circles and I don't think we could ever be able to be a couple again. My X has this independence right now that quite frankly I find so unattractive.
Really, my heart is broken more that we are not a family and not for my X. She really is someone completely different than the person I married. To tell you the truth so am I. If my X and I met now we would probably have no interest in each other.
All I can do now is just continue to help my kids out. I can see some real pain that they are having. They are just burnt out of all the back and forth between our separate houses and the very different lives they live in each.
Not liking my X at all in this very moment. In fact I am not liking my X's whole family.
Thanks again to everyone who responds to my posts. It means a lot to me.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
