I really don't know if there is any advice I can give you about this. Kinda in the same sitch with my H.

Just thought I would send you a hug.

Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007