I saw the changes in myself regarding how I approached and worked in a relationship as being postive changes in my new relationship, the one after my marriage...
Just turns out that new relationship was with my wife.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK