Getting legal counsel doesn't mean that you're going to chop up what you have or asking for more or any of that material stuff. It's just checking to be sure that everything checks out on your end. I you don't want to, that's up to you, but you've been warned.

"the woman has to accept that the fighting is over"

That's step one, but reconciliation only happens if the couple is still in contact with each other. You're not.

Think about it this way. You've been gone for awhile and she hasn't called you to say "what's up" at all. She's not missing you.

IMO you should move back home. You're only assuming that she has something written in the agreement where you're not welcome home again. And if it is, do you really think she's missing you?

You didn't answer the question though of what if she already has an OM and he's in your home right now?


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER