Great small step, Punchy. Now don't be overzealous with it. One day at a time. Keep reminding yourself that it takes a long time to heal - a long time to change - especially since we (all of us guys here) have been one person for so long.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE