A slow turn

[Bolt]

Honestly, after all of the advice I've been given, it does come back to my gut and it doesn't believe something is going on. She is very loyal AND the guy lives a couple thousand of miles away. He's in a secure relationship (but his significant other doesn't like the contact either). W has always had good guy friends and not too many good woman friends.

Really, I have to trust her. That is something that I do feel our relationship is based on. I don't like it - her texting - but honestly, I have told her how I feel and that I do believe her and trust her. So I have to understand that.

She is so confused on whether to stay or go right now that I am doing everything in my power to keep us together. That starts with me. Do I seem like a doormat for her to continue to text? I don't think so. She assures me that this guy is just like a chick. She's venting and he's showing the guy side. She even said she has no interest in him in any other way.

I have to believe her or I might as well be done with this relationship.

Am I crazy and naive? Maybe. But I'm willing to take that chance instead of ruining the M right now.