You mentioned to your W about feelings you are having.
Be careful with this. These are words,not actions.
Actions speak volumes for her also.
Keeping our mouths shut is the hardest part.
Tonight, other than hello, try staying silent, see if she initiates any conversation. If she does, listen. Talk as little as possible.
To me, this is feeling her out. This will tell you if she really wants to talk or not. Maybe the conversations you have had in the past were initiated by you, this may be putting her in a place she doesn't want to be. Just see if she will initiate some conversation.
This is kind of a test to see where she is at with talking, and it will show if you have been talking to much.
I am not trying to bring you down, you seem much better lately, but sometimes when I was feeling better and having more confidence in myself, I would want to run to my W and tell her how I feel and what I had learned about myself. According to most advice I have seen, we shouldn't do this.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
