The finances are hard, especially when it hits your kids. I'm in the process of clearing space for roommates right now because I can't keep up and can't depend on H for help. I expect it to throw him for a loop when I find someone too.
Look into assistance programs if you can. Maybe try a family 'camp out' all in one room on really cold nights.
Hang on, and try to think outside the box a bit too. I started teaching kid art classes at my local rec center and taking baking orders around my neighborhood to bring in some cash. Still may end up having to declare bankruptcy before this is over, but it helps.
