PEI - girlfriend, I am so sorry. We tend to get caught up in the emotions of everything that is going on in our lives, but in reality the one thing MLC/affair/divorce creates is a financial nightmare. completely and totally a nightmare. All of us...selling houses, businesses failing, allamony, child support, loss of double income, health insurance, retirement.
The plain and simple truth is that a marriage is more than love and emotions, it is a LIFE. And to me it is harder to overcome the LIFE that we are losing as compared to the LOVE we are losing.
You hang in there my friend - God won't let those beautiful babies get cold. Tax return is just around the corner...
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
