This is a very reassuring set of guidlines. I think it is helpful, especially when you can be honest with yourself and recognize if you are/ or are not making changes!


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out