This is a very reassuring set of guidlines. I think it is helpful, especially when you can be honest with yourself and recognize if you are/ or are not making changes!
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out