OK, so my life has been a lot of ups and downs since I last posted. I am dying to hear how it is going living with him and my H's most recent idea is that we live together again, but strictly for the kids. Meaning we would not be working on the marriage. I'm not sure if it is wishful thinking but I do believe there is a part of him that misses me. I have gotten so much better at not contacting him and he continues to try to contact me, often about things that have nothing to do with the kids. I'm not reading too much into that though, I just honestly feel stronger when I don't have any contact with him. This is why I am hesitant to have him move back home. It would be emotionally draining if we were just going to live together as friends and raise our kids. Please tell me how this is going for you!!!!!!