I see you are still up bright and early these days. I so hope you are taking care of yourself. Stress can knock the shizbot out of you in record time, and leave you open to all kinds of nasty bugs.
Try to look at it as just a piece of paper in the process. It's only as important as the importance you put on it. In my mind, signing a divorce decree won't bind me anymore than the marriage license did with him. Win, lose or draw, it will be my decision as to my life from that moment on.
You have been such an inspiration to so many of us here, and we all hate to see you hurting this way. We also understand it's just a process we all have to go through, and you will come through with shining colors. Just take care of yourself physically and mentally.
Also - are you sure he really filed or was he just mouthing off? No papers yet? I live in the backwoods of Arkansas and they found me in 5 days. ((HUGS))
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
