Need advice please!!! Not sure on next move?

[dixiegal]

I don't know if he has started to see someone. But, could be.

Though seperated we have seen each other every week, gone on vacations and etc. Until the big fight a few days before Christmas when he said, he was done with this. He couldnt keep me waiting anymore, but he just cant come home.

He texts he misses me every few days or sends a facebook msg. But, except for coming over to bring the dog. He has stayed away, barley spoke to me and etc.

He does not say, he loves me or anything just miss you. I'm a mess. Ive been seeing a counsler who says that our marraige could be saved. She suggested a couples retreat for those whom are seperated and etc. But, if I'm doing the LRT how can I ask him this?