H's MLC - finding compassion and forgiveness

[Mila]

Thank you Bea. I know that he has a long way to go in his MLC...I just don't want to be in the line of fire anymore...he can start tormenting someone else...ideally the OW lol. I want out of this madness...have to find a position that would somehow keep me and D living in similar lifestyle and get out from our company....wish me luck...I wasn't making up that being 53 is an issue...it is an issue...but I'll find something.

About protecting my assets...well my lawyer gave him the draft of the Separation Agreement in mid November...he's been sitting on it for 2 months now...In the end H may end up with the company and I'll get the house and few other things....

Financially H is totally in lala land....business is loosing money and he's been talking about a new car for himself, new laptop for D, promised D a trip to Europe as a graduation present...and the list goes on.

I know that he hates himself for what he has done, I don't think that he is able to fully face it yet and if any consequences of his actions are brought up in a conversation he lashes out...can't deal with it....