Did make another date with my male friend....H sure is making it easier for me...which guy do you want be around?...the one that torments you or the one that really enjoys your company and thinks that you are fabulous?
Let us all think about that one!
But you know, from being on these boards, that he is still in the early stages of the MLC. All of us here can see the stages unfold for others, while in our own situation it just seems so up close and personal. I would say that you need to protect your assets in the business, and take legal advice if you haven't already. Your h's spending and reliability just might become more erratic. I suspect that you are entitled to half the company. But act sooner rather than later. All the people I know, including myself, who have gone through this wish they had acted sooner. Even if you reconcile there is less financial damage to deal with.
I know in some companies the people who work in it are the main asset, and that is a problem in valuing it. If it helps, way deep down he is angry at himself for his behaviour, and is lashing out and blaming you
